Key for me traveling alone (Gunnar couldn't take time off) was to travel while the Dude would be sleeping; and it worked because he slept through most of the flight and car ride.
- Knowing airline rules helps too. The TSA allows you to take liquid formula (keep separate plastic bag) for the trip. The baby bag doesn't count against your carry-on, nor does checking car seat or stroller.
- Gate check car seat (but be prepared that if you don't cover it, it might be damaged) so if there is an empty seat you can ask to have it.
- Book a seat in a row that has one empty seat, you might have a higher chance that it will stay empty, especially if it is a middle seat.
- Pack lightly. Make a list for you and baby. In carry-on, pack baby change of clothes. Be realistic about your outfits and know that you can do laundry (especially if visiting family), which will reduce what you bring. Additionally, you can always buy something if you come across unexpected weather. Dress in layers and color coordinate all pieces for mix/match options.
- Leave the hairdryer at home - most hotels and friends/family will have these items.
- Don't pack toiletries like toothpaste. If you can't borrow, you can always purchase or request for free.
- Ask friends/family/hotel if they can provide bassinet, crib for baby. Our hotel in Manhattan not only provided a packnplay, they provided baby shampoo, body wash and lotion. Higher rates of families travel, so most hotels now are able to accommodate baby needs - and for free.
Ask for assistance and leave plenty of time. Recently, We traveled to NYC. Taking the train was easy and comfortable for us. The conductor was really helpful, even arranging for us to sit in the handicap spot so I could keep the stroller open and the Dude could comfortably sleep. Also, a plus for me since I was able to relax too.
Our occurred on my journey back from Penn Station. I've been to Penn a dozen times before and never had any issues. However, traveling with a baby and the stroller, we encounter difficulty gaining access into the station because the taxi dropped us off on the backside. We couldn't find an elevator and when we finally did, it was out of order. Luckily I had a friend with me; and we carried the stroller down. Then, we couldn't get down to the platform. I never thought to ask for assistance because I've never needed it before. When you have a baby - you are grouped in with the disabled. Right or not, work the system and go with the flow because it will be easier for you. Unlike me, hopefully you will not miss your train. Yup. Lesson learned - ask for assistance.
